Legacy Living Starts Here

Legacy Living Starts Here

by | Apr 29, 2025 | Clear Clutter, Lifestyle, Organize, Preserve | 0 comments

Legacy Living Starts Here:

A Manifesto, A Framework, and a Weekly Rhythm to Build What Matters

Some seasons of life ask us to go deeper, not faster. To get clearer, not busier. To make room for what matters—and let go of what no longer does.

That’s why I created HER Life Hacks and the C.O.P.E. Framework. And it’s why today, I’m unveiling something even more intentional:

✨ The Legacy Living Manifesto
📍 The C.O.P.E. Framework (Clear. Organize. Preserve. Empower.)
📅 The BLT Weekly Track: A rhythm of life and business content designed for impact

🌱 Introducing the Legacy Living Manifesto

 

Legacy isn’t something you write at the end of your life—it’s something you live, daily. The Legacy Living Manifesto is a declaration of values, vision, and action for women 50+ who want to live with purpose and finish well.

It’s not a list of goals or resolutions. It’s an incentive—an invitation to step forward with clarity, courage, and intention.

Legacy Living Manifesto
Legacy Living Manifesto - C.O.P.E.

Downloadable and Printable Legacy Living Manifesto

   The C.O.P.E. Framework: Your Legacy Starts          Now

 

At the heart of everything I offer is the C.O.P.E. Framework:

  • C – Clear Clutter: Let go of the excess. Keep what matters.
  • O – Organize: Put things in place that make life easier and more meaningful.
  • P – Preserve: Capture your stories, your wisdom, your voice.
  • E – Empower: Live with purpose. Pass on more than things—pass on strength.

Every tool, tip, product, and post at HER Life Hacks connects to one of these four pillars. Together, they support you in creating a life (and legacy) by design—not default.

 

COPE Pyramid 

🥪 What Is BLT? Your Weekly Legacy Content Plan

 

Legacy Living is easier when you know what to expect. So, I’ve created a rhythm to anchor your week:

  • B = Business Legacy Track (Tuesdays): Streamline your digital life, repurpose your content, organize your assets, and design a business that reflects your values.
  • L = Life Legacy Track (Wednesdays): Focus on home, family, estate prep, decluttering, organizing, memory-keeping, and all the meaningful layers of life that shape your story.
  • T = Together Track (Fridays): The intersection where life and business meet. Think productivity, time management, legacy tech tips, or personal stories with broader applications.

Each week, you’ll receive content that fits within one of these tracks—always grounded in the C.O.P.E. pillars, always aligned with the bigger picture: living well, finishing strong, and leaving nothing unsaid.

❤️ You’re Invited

 

This is more than a blog post. It’s your invitation to embrace a different pace and a deeper purpose.

Subscribe, follow along, and participate. Whether you’re ready to tackle your closets, your content, or your calling—I’ve got something coming your way that will help.

This is where Legacy Living begins. I’m so glad you’re here.

To your storied life,

Live well. Finish strong. Leave nothing unsaid.

Go to https://HERLifeHacks.com to subscribe to my newsletter. You are welcome here!

 

I’m Vicki Peel, Ed.D. — creator of HER Life Hacks,

certified organizational specialist,

and your guide to Legacy Living.

Here, we declutter what doesn’t matter, organize what does,

and preserve the stories only you can tell.

This is for women who want to live with intention, leave a legacy,

and never lose track of what really counts.

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Creating a Meaningful Family Legacy – by Decluttering

by | Mar 27, 2025 | Clear Clutter, Lifestyle, Preserve | 0 comments

Elizabeth’s experiences with legacy decluttering involved her parents, who began the process themselves, and her aunt, whose estate she managed.

In a recent interview, she shared her stories of legacy decluttering.

Have you thought about the legacy you want to leave behind in terms of the stuff you own?

Whether you’re downsizing due to life’s natural transitions or simply beginning the journey of letting go, the Legacy Decluttering Starter Kit is your trusted guide. Click on the title below to see what’s included and how it can help you.

Legacy Decluttering Starter Kit

Live Well. Finish Strong. Leave a Lasting Legacy.

 

If you’re interested in the Legacy Decluttering Starter Kit, contact me at vicki@herlifehacks.com for a coupon code if you would like a discount.

 

Disclosure: My blog posts sometimes contain affiliate links. This means I earn a small commission if you click through and make a purchase, which is at no additional cost to you. Thank you!

I’m Vicki Peel, former home economics teacher and educational administrator. If you are not receiving my emails, coupons, and freebies, go to my website – https://HERLifehacks.com, and pick up my free copy of HER Heritage HOMEwork Checklist. I will not share your information with anyone, and all the content you will receive as part of our community is free. I may occasionally promote someone else’s paid content, offer a product for your consideration or share an item that I think might be of use to you. However, you are under no obligation to purchase anything – ever. 

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Legacy Decluttering on a Budget

Legacy Decluttering on a Budget

by | Mar 18, 2025 | Clear Clutter | 0 comments

Have you ever opened a closet only to be greeted by an avalanche of old belongings? Each item teetering on the edge of nostalgia, yet only adding to the clutter? If so, you’re not alone.

Our lives often accumulate so many things that it becomes hard to distinguish between what truly matters and what simply takes up space.

But, decluttering doesn’t have to cost a fortune or be an overwhelming task. Let’s dive into 3 simple—and budget-friendly—steps to embark on your legacy decluttering journey, so you can keep what matters and let go of the rest.

Step 1: Start with Stories, Not Stuff

Before you reach for that worn-out sweater, pause for a moment. What’s the story behind it? Ah, that old familiar tale! Maybe it was a gift from a beloved friend or a cherished memory from a special event. It’s easy to confuse the sentimental value of an object with the emotions tied to it. So, let’s flip the narrative.

Instead of keeping the sweater, take a moment to write down your story: When did you receive it? Why does it hold special meaning? Snap a photo of the sweater to immortalize it in the digital realm. By doing this, you preserve the memory without the physical clutter. Once you capture the sentiment, consider donating the sweater to someone who could use it. You’ve honored the past while creating space for new experiences. It’s a win-win!

Step 2: Give Meaningful Things a Second Life

Now that you’ve cleared out some of the sentimental clutter, let’s shine a light on those pieces that may have outlived their purpose. You know that vintage dresser taking up space in your garage? While it once may have inspired dreams of DIY projects, perhaps it’s time to let it go. Your clutter could be someone else’s treasure—and even a chance for you to make a little cash!

Consider donating to local charities, selling through community groups, or repurposing items into something fresh and functional. For instance, that dresser could become a trendy TV stand or a unique entryway piece with a little paint and some flair. By giving meaningful items a second life, you not only declutter your space but also contribute positively to someone else’s story. Who knows? Maybe that dresser will inspire another’s creativity!

Step 3: Ditch the Guilt, Keep the Gratitude

Letting go can be tough, especially when it comes to items that carry emotional weight, like Grandma’s china. But here’s the truth: Grandma’s heart won’t shatter if you decide to pass it on. Honor her legacy by choosing to keep items that genuinely serve you—not those that suffocate you with guilt.

When you do a declutter session, practice gratitude. Thank the items for their previous roles in your life, recognize how they served you, and then let them go. By doing so, you’re valuing the memories without being burdened by the possessions. You’re preserving the essence of your family history, and that is what truly matters.

What’s Your Next Move?

Decluttering is about more than just clearing space; it’s about making room for the things that genuinely matter in your life. By starting with stories, repurposing meaningful items, and letting go of guilt while staying grateful, you can declutter your legacy on a budget that honors both your past and your future.

Still feel those twinges of doubt and guilt when you let go of sentimental items? Take this simple quiz to answer this question:  Are You Carrying Too Much Emotional Clutter?

Ready to take it on?

What’s one sentimental item you’ve let go of that led to a sense of lightness? Share your journey with others and remember, decluttering doesn’t have to be an emotional battle.

It can be a liberating experience that brings joy, clarity, and gratitude as you craft a legacy filled with only what truly matters.

Now go ahead—take that step, breathe, and embrace the freedom that comes from letting go!

 

This post was previously published on Substack, March 12, 2025.

 

Clearing Emotional Clutter: 5 Steps to Lighten Your Mental Load

Clearing Emotional Clutter: 5 Steps to Lighten Your Mental Load

by | Feb 19, 2025 | Clear Clutter | 2 comments

Clearing Emotional Clutter: 5 Steps to Lighten Your Mental Load

How Emotional Clutter Holds You Back

If your quiz results suggest that emotional clutter is a challenge for you, you’re not alone. We live in a time of constant input, where information, worries, and expectations pile up like a never-ending to-do list. Oh- you didn’t take the quiz? You can take it in the last blog post:

The Emotional Clutter Quiz: Are You Overloaded?

Here’s how emotional clutter impacts your life:

  • It drains your energy. Constant mental noise can be just as exhausting as physical work.
  • It kills productivity. When your mind is cluttered, focusing on important tasks becomes harder.
  • It affects your health. Stress-related clutter can lead to headaches, sleep problems, and anxiety.
  • It shows up in your space. Mental clutter often leads to a cluttered home or workspace, making stress even worse.

Now that you’ve identified your emotional clutter, here’s how to start clearing it:

1. Set Boundaries on Information Overload

  • Reduce exposure to anxiety-inducing news and social media.
  • Set a daily “news window” to check updates without doomscrolling.
  • Unfollow accounts that add to stress instead of value.

2. Create a “Mental Declutter” List

  • Write down everything weighing on your mind (worries, to-dos, unfinished tasks).
  • Identify what you can control vs. what you can’t.
  • Prioritize just one small action to gain momentum.

3. Process and Release What You’re Holding Onto

  • Try journaling to clear lingering thoughts and emotions.
  • Have an honest conversation with someone you trust.
  • Consider therapy or coaching if unresolved emotions are affecting your daily life.

4. Declutter Your Physical Space to Clear Your Mind

  • Tidy up one small area (your desk, nightstand, or purse) to create a sense of control.
  • Notice how a clearer space makes your mind feel lighter.
  • Use decluttering as a mindful reset instead of just another chore.

5. Reset Your Mind Daily

  • Start your mornings with five minutes of deep breathing, stretching, or journaling.
  • Set an evening wind-down routine to release mental clutter before bed.
  • Focus on small, consistent habits rather than perfection.

The good news? You can start decluttering your emotions just like you would your home—one small step at a time.

Lighten Your Load One Thought at a Time

Emotional clutter doesn’t disappear overnight, but taking small, intentional steps can free up mental space, reduce stress, and help you feel more in control—no matter what’s happening in the world

My Challenge:

Although I need to work on #1, #2, and #5, I realize that creates more emotional clutter, because it’s overwhelming. The last thing I need to do when I’m dealing with emotional issues is to take on too much.

However, #1 – Set boundaries on information overload is paramount for me. I confess that I have been emotionally overloaded since November. And the things that weigh heavily are things I cannot fix. It’s easy to know what to do. It’s not always easy to do it. It takes effort and planning and execution of those plans.

I have shifted my major social media platforms to Substack and LinkedIn, with more focus on Substack. But my major platform is YouTube, on which I have plans to post more. As a certified introvert, I don’t like Instagram. I’ve quit posting and scrolling on Facebook (to the extent possible). The only reason I’m still on Facebook is because I’m in some informative and supportive Facebook Groups, so I still need access to those. But I dislike Facebook – a lot. I deleted my X account and don’t follow anyone there. And I refuse to be on TikTok.

As for the news, I don’t watch it ever. I try to avoid reading any news when I come across it. I subscribe to and read Steady by Dan Rather. Period.

Your Challenge:

Pick just ONE decluttering step from this list and try it today. Then, notice how it makes you feel. I’d love to hear what you decide to do and how it goes for you.

 

 

Disclosure: My blog posts sometimes contain affiliate links. This means I earn a small commission if you click through and make a purchase, which is at no additional cost to you. Thank you!

I’m Vicki Peel, former home economics teacher and educational administrator. If you are not receiving my emails, coupons, and freebies, go to my website – https://HERLifehacks.com, and pick up my free copy of HER Heritage HOMEwork Checklist to help you C.O.P.E.  I will not share your information with anyone, and all the content you will receive as part of our community is free. I may occasionally promote someone else’s paid content, offer a product for your consideration or share an item that I think might be of use to you. However, you are under no obligation to purchase anything – ever. So, sign up now so you won’t miss anything during our July through September focus on LIFESTYLE! 

Are You Carrying Too Much Emotional Clutter? Take This Quiz to Find Out

Are You Carrying Too Much Emotional Clutter? Take This Quiz to Find Out

by | Feb 6, 2025 | Clear Clutter | 0 comments

Introduction

Does life feel heavier than usual? Do you find yourself overwhelmed, distracted, or emotionally exhausted by the end of the day? If so, you might be carrying emotional clutter—the mental and emotional weight of stress, worries, and unresolved thoughts.

Just like a cluttered home can make it hard to relax, emotional clutter can drain your energy, sabotage your focus, and leave you feeling stuck. But how do you know if it’s affecting you?

Take this quick quiz to find out if emotional clutter is holding you back.

 

The Emotional Clutter Quiz: Are You Overloaded?

 

How Emotional Clutter Holds You Back

 

If your quiz results suggest that emotional clutter is a challenge for you, you’re not alone. We live in a time of constant input, where information, worries, and expectations pile up like a never-ending to-do list.

Here’s how emotional clutter impacts your life:

 

  • It drains your energy. Constant mental noise can be just as exhausting as physical work.
  • It kills productivity. When your mind is cluttered, focusing on important tasks becomes harder.
  • It affects your health. Stress-related clutter can lead to headaches, sleep problems, and anxiety.
  • It shows up in your space. Mental clutter often leads to a cluttered home or workspace, making stress even worse.

The good news? You can start decluttering your emotions just like you would your home—one small step at a time.

 

 

Disclosure: My blog posts sometimes contain affiliate links. This means I earn a small commission if you click through and make a purchase, which is at no additional cost to you. Thank you!

I’m Vicki Peel, former home economics teacher and educational administrator. If you are not receiving my emails, coupons, and freebies, go to my website – https://HERLifehacks.com, and pick up my free copy of HER Heritage HOMEwork Checklist to help you C.O.P out.  I will not share your information with anyone, and all the content you will receive as part of our community is free. I may occasionally promote someone else’s paid content, offer a product for your consideration or share an item that I think might be of use to you. However, you are under no obligation to purchase anything – ever. So, sign up now so you won’t miss anything during our July through September focus on LIFESTYLE!