Why Smart Women Over 60 Are a Prime Target of Scammers

Why Smart Women Over 60 Are a Prime Target of Scammers

 

Have you ever heard about someone being scammed and thought, how could they fall for that?

But here’s the thing. Many scam victims are intelligent, capable people – teachers, business owners, and retirees who managed households and careers for decades.

The problem isn’t intelligence.

The problem is that scams have changed.

Today’s scams are engineered using psychology, artificial intelligence, and carefully crafted urgency to make even experienced people react quickly.

And scammers know exactly who they want to reach.

Women over 60.

Not because they think you’re naïve, but because they know you are responsible, financially stable, accustomed to solving problems quickly, and willing to act when something sounds urgent.

In other words, the very traits that made you successful in life can be used against you.

The Scam I Fell For

 

A few years ago, I received a message that appeared to be from PayPal. Everything about it looked legitimate.

It said my account was about to be shut down because of suspicious activity.

There was urgency.

There was pressure.

And there were instructions to resolve the problem immediately.

I followed those instructions and sent requested funds before something in my mind clicked and I realized what was happening.

It was a scam.

Scammers even took control of my computer. I could actually see them making the keystrokes on my computer as they sought to infiltrate my personal data.

Nothing I did would stop it, and I panicked.

I removed the hard drive and later took it to professionals to scan and clean to make sure no malicious software remained.

But, as soon as I realized what was happening, I went directly to my bank and told them everything.

They were able to stop the transfer, reimburse most of the money, and then closed my account and credit cards, before opening new ones.

But I didn’t tell anyone.

Why?

Because I felt embarrassed.

And that reaction — silence — is exactly what scammers depend on.

 

Scams Are Designed to Bypass Your Thinking Brain

 

Fraud today isn’t random.

It’s engineered.

Scammers rely on a few powerful triggers:

    • Urgency: “Your account will be shut down.”
    • Authority: “This is PayPal / the bank / the police.”
    • Fear: “You could lose your money.”
    • Isolation: “Don’t tell anyone while we fix this.”

In a single phone call, a scammer can sound official, warn you of a serious problem, insist you act immediately, and tell you not to talk to anyone about it.

And that’s when mistakes happen.

Artificial Intelligence Is Making Scams Harder to Spot

 

The next wave of scams is even more convincing.

Criminals now use:

  • AI-generated emails and messages
  • cloned voices of family members
  • deepfake videos
  • realistic websites that mimic real companies

For example, a scammer can use an AI-cloned version of your granddaughter’s voice to call and claim she’s in trouble and needs money immediately.

 

The Real Lesson

 

The lesson here is that we need new habits.

Three simple rules can prevent most scams.

    • Take a breath. Urgency is the scammer’s favorite tool.
    • Hang up or close the message. Then find the official number or website yourself.
    • Check it out. Call the real source on a verified phone number or log in through the official website yourself.

Being scammed does not mean you are foolish. It can happen to anyone. It means you were targeted by someone whose full-time job is manipulation.

The Most Important Thing to Remember

 

If you realize you’ve been scammed, contact your bank or credit card company immediately, change your passwords, and consider talking to a trusted friend or family member so you’re not handling it alone.

Women over 60 are not weak. They are resourceful, experienced, and exactly the kind of person scammers want to exploit — but you can stay one step ahead by talking openly and refusing to be shamed into silence.

Because the moment we stop feeling ashamed and start sharing what we know, scammers lose one of their most powerful advantages.

 

Where I Am Right Now (And Why I’m Pausing to Notice)

Where I Am Right Now (And Why I’m Pausing to Notice)

Over the past few weeks, I’ve been doing something that doesn’t come naturally to me.

I’ve been looking—on purpose.

Without fixing, optimizing, or declaring a big new plan.

Just looking at something  that I’ve historically put last – finances

I didn’t begin with a budget or a spreadsheet overhaul. I started by noticing how much avoidance had quietly shaped my habits over the years.

Bills were paid.
Money was in the bank.
Everything seemed “fine.”

And yet, I didn’t really know what was happening beneath the surface—especially with subscriptions, recurring charges, and the way small decisions compound over time. 

That pattern of avoidance wasn’t about math. It was about being afraid to see the whole picture at once. Because once you see it, you can’t unsee it.

So I made a decision:
I would stop avoiding—and start observing.

What I’ve Been Doing (Quietly and Imperfectly)

I’ve been taking what I call a “just look” approach.

That has meant:

  • Pulling statements instead of skimming them
  • Tracking subscriptions instead of assuming I remembered them all
  • Discovering charges I thought were canceled—and dealing with the fallout
  • Realizing that some things can’t be understood without a bit of organizing first, especially when deadlines (like taxes) are involved

None of this has been fast. And none of it has been polished.

In fact, some weeks looked like progress. Others not so much. 

But something important shifted along the way: the fear I’d built up over years of not looking was far worse than the reality of finally seeing things as they are.

What Surprised Me Most

What surprised me wasn’t how much needed attention—it was how much relief came with taking responsibility.

Once I stopped postponing decisions, I felt steadier.
Once I worked through a process one time, the next time took a fraction of the energy.
Once I admitted, “I don’t actually have a system here,” the path forward became clearer.

That’s a pattern I recognize from many other areas of life and work. It’s rarely the task itself that drains us—it’s the friction created by not having a repeatable way to approach it.

Why I’m Sharing This Now

I’m pausing here—not because I’m done, but because I’m not.

I haven’t named this phase.
I haven’t packaged it.
I’m not ready to call it a system.

What I am doing is paying attention to what’s changing as I move from avoidance to awareness, from reaction to intention. 

And I know I’m not the only one who has postponed certain areas of life simply because everything else felt more urgent.

If you’re reading this and thinking, “I’ve been meaning to look at that…”—whether it’s finances, files, commitments, or something else entirely—you’re just at the moment before clarity.

I’ll keep sharing what I’m noticing as I go.
Not as advice or instruction.
But as someone willing to look—and learn—out loud.

The Hidden Cost of Digital Clutter

The Hidden Cost of Digital Clutter


We all know clutter in our homes can weigh us down. But here’s the truth most people don’t talk about: digital clutter is costing you, too.

And not just in storage space.

What Digital Clutter Really Costs You

  • Time. Every minute spent searching for a file adds up. If you waste 10 minutes a day hunting, that’s over 60 hours a year — gone.
  • Energy. The frustration of “where is that file?” isn’t small. It drains mental energy you could spend on work that matters.
  • Confidence. Few things rattle you more than not being able to find something you know you saved. It chips away at your sense of control.

For solopreneurs, that means lost productivity and credibility. For retirees, it can mean feeling overwhelmed and stuck when you should be free to enjoy this stage of life.

Why Quick Fixes Don’t Work

Most people try surface-level solutions:

  • Color-coding files.
  • Creating more folders.
  • Shoving everything into “Miscellaneous” and promising to deal with it later.

Sound familiar?

These tricks don’t solve the problem because they don’t address the system. Without a system, clutter comes right back.

The First Step: Clear a Path

Here’s the good news: you don’t need to overhaul everything at once.

Start small. Make a little space. Clear a path forward.

That’s why my Digital Decluttering Quickstart Kit might work for you. It’s a short, simple guide with:

  • A 5 Quick Wins Checklist (takes less than 20 minutes).
  • Reflection prompts to spot your biggest sticking points.
  • A clear next step that points the way to a system that lasts.

Think of it as sweeping the porch before moving in the furniture.

What’s Next

If you’re tired of wasting time and energy in digital chaos, this is your moment to take action.

👉 Grab the File Flow Quickstart Kit here.

It’s your first step toward File Flow — my four-week live course that teaches you how to create a personalized, repeatable digital filing system that actually works. Like you do.

Because life’s too short to waste it hunting for files.

 

 

 

 

 

 

From Legacy Decluttering to Legacy Living: Marie’s Story Continues

From Legacy Decluttering to Legacy Living: Marie’s Story Continues

Featured photo is an AI-enhanced image of Marie as the muscled-woman first 
member of the Wellness Committee, as designed by her staff member chairperson.

Early in 2025, I interviewed Marie (age 90) about her experiences downsizing from her huge home of almost 60 years to a tiny apartment in a city almost 100 miles away from where she lived her entire life.

Her story was one of legacy decluttering in action.

(If you missed it, you can see it here: Real-Life Legacy Decluttering 101 🏡 How Marie Did it Her Way)

Recently, my husband and I, along with two friends, visited Marie in her new home, an independent living retirement community.

Marie couldn’t wait to show us around. As our excited tour guide, Marie took us through the entire community and grounds. Her tour included group gathering places, theater room, activity rooms  for mahjong, cards and art, billiards, shuffleboard, putting green, pickleball court, exercise spaces, swimming pool, dining spaces, beauty parlor, and more!

My favorite was the seated volleyball court! Players had to remain seated as the volleyball (beach ball type) was batted back and forth across the net. I wanted to play!

 

 

Seated Volleyball Court

 

 

The tour ended with Marie’s apartment – a one-bedroom suite with all the amenities and a balcony overlooking a row of trees that made you wonder if you were still in the city.

Marie’s tour took quite a bit longer than you’d expect, because she stopped and introduced us to every friend along the way. And there were many!

When Marie left our community and church, we hated to see her go and even wondered if she could be happy leaving so much of her life behind. But after our visit, we came away uplifted by seeing how engaged and active she was. And happy.

Marie made the decision that this move was necessary. She knew her time for living independently in a huge house all alone was limited, and being closer to her children was a priority.

Marie made the decision to be happy where she was going. She told herself from the beginning that she would not stay in her room all day, but that she would mingle and make new friends and engage in activities.

Yes, she decluttered her whole house and sold it. But it wasn’t about getting rid of things. It became clearing space for a new chapter of her life.

She made it less about “leaving behind” and more about “living forward”. Her choice allowed her to enter a new season of life with joy and freedom.

Marie made the successful transition from legacy decluttering to legacy living.

 

 

Our first response to decluttering is to see it as a chore. Something that must be done. But something we simply don’t want to do.

But what if we could think beyond the chore. What if the real reward is creating space for the life we want and need right now?

Marie is a model for that shift.

If you’re a retiree or solopreneur, how might legacy decluttering free you to embrace new opportunities? What clutter – physical, digital, or mental – is keeping you from your next chapter? Imagine what awaits you if you choose to create your next chapter.

How I Simplified My Den with One Sofa

How I Simplified My Den with One Sofa

I CC-O ed my den with a sofa – meaning I C leared C lutter and O rganized my den with a sofa. The den was too full of stuff. I’ve said it often that I have too much stuff. So I bought a new sofa. (Truth – I have been wanting a sectional for a long time.)

I ordered my sofa from Home Reserve after a lot of research. First, I ordered 9 fabric samples, just to be clear on the color and quality. Then I ordered an armless chair (one section of a sofa), which was free for 60 days. If I decided I didn’t like it for any reason, I could ship it back at the company’s expense. It didn’t take too long to decide that I wanted this sofa.

A company representative emailed me to see if I had any questions and how she could help. So, I sent her pictures of my room and described what I was looking for. She responded with a diagram of the sofa I described and all the pieces I needed. When I approved that, she created an order for me to review, and all I had to do was submit the order.

Once Home Reserve received my order, they began the manufacturing process and I was informed all along the way about its progress. Within 2 weeks, I had my sofa – or I had 7 boxes! They said all boxes were designed to fit in doorways and be manageable for 1-2 persons to move them.

My husband and I unboxed them one at a time and assembled each box before moving on to the next one. The boxes were labeled with contents and which to open first for the instructions. Each box included the frame, cushions, fabric covers, and hardware needed. Instructions were in one booklet. They were surprisingly easy to read and assembly was ingenious.

After 3 days of working a few hours at a time (after all, we’re in our 70’s!), we had a sofa. And we did it all by ourselves.

And you can check out the steps to assemble our new sofa below!

 

 

 

sofa assembly collage
sofa assembly, part 2

So, what do you think?

We expected needing to call in some help.  But, in the words of our son when he was about 3 years old, “I do it all my byself”. And so we did!

Clutter in Life and Business: How to Know What’s in the Way

Clutter in Life and Business: How to Know What’s in the Way

You can’t move forward if you don’t know what’s blocking your path.

We’ve all been there—feeling stuck.
Stalled.
Surrounded by clutter and unsure why we’re not making progress.

If you’re over 50, building a business or preparing your legacy, here’s what you need to know: clutter isn’t always what you think it is.

Sometimes it looks like paper piles or a messy desktop.
But more often, it hides in your brain, your calendar, or your decision-making.

What’s the Real Problem?

Let’s name it:
You can’t clear the path forward if you don’t know what’s in the way.

And clutter shows up in more forms than just physical mess:

  • Digital clutter – Files scattered across devices, email inbox overload, no idea where your stuff is.
  • Mental clutter – Too many ideas, too few next steps. You’re thinking in circles.
  • Emotional clutter – Guilt, fear, perfectionism. The “I shoulds” pile up.
  • Calendar clutter – Too many meetings, outdated commitments, no room to breathe.

Truth? I’ve experienced every one of those clutter situations. And it stops accomplishing anything right in its tracks!

Clutter isn’t just “stuff.”
It’s anything that distracts you from what matters.

Why It Matters

If you try to solve everything at once, you solve nothing. I know. I’ve tried.

You waste precious time organizing things that don’t matter—or worse, you get overwhelmed and quit before you start.

  • In business: You tweak your logo again instead of finishing that client follow-up. (OMG – I’ve just done that this week!!)
  • In life: You alphabetize the spice rack but ignore the fact that your mornings start in chaos.

Here’s the truth:

You can’t live well—or finish strong—until you get clear about what’s really blocking you.

A Just-in-Time Fix

Let’s make this simple. That’s something I’ve made a concerted effort to do. And I’m actually making progress. I’ve let a lot of things go that I thought I “should do”.  Still working on the not feeling guilty part.

Ask yourself:
“What’s keeping me from moving forward… today?”

That’s it. One question.

Then:

Name it. Claim it. Tame it.

Use this quick Clarity Filter to find what’s actually in the way right now:

✅ I don’t know what to do next
✅ I have too many unfinished tasks
✅ I can’t find what I need
✅ I’m overwhelmed with decisions
✅ I’m trying to do too much
✅ I’m doing the wrong thing at the wrong time

Pick just one.

Then address that.
Not everything. Just that.

You’ll be amazed at how powerful one small shift can be.

What’s in Your Way Today?

I’d love to know—make a comment or define your SOS: Submit One Situation button and share the thing that’s tripping you up right now.

I’ll help you take the next step.

And if you’re ready to tackle your digital clutter, my upcoming File Flow mini-course might be just what you need to clear that mental load and make room for what matters.

 

 

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I’m Vicki Peel, a retired educator and Certified Organizational Specialist, and I created HER Life Hacks to help women C.O.P.E.—Clear Clutter, Organize, Preserve, and Empower themselves. Legacy decluttering isn’t just about getting rid of things—it’s about choosing what truly matters, ensuring that our most treasured belongings, memories, and values are preserved for future generations, and creating a home that reflects what’s important.

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Legacy Living Starts Here

Legacy Living Starts Here

Legacy Living Starts Here:

A Manifesto, A Framework, and a Weekly Rhythm to Build What Matters

Some seasons of life ask us to go deeper, not faster. To get clearer, not busier. To make room for what matters—and let go of what no longer does.

That’s why I created HER Life Hacks and the C.O.P.E. Framework. And it’s why today, I’m unveiling something even more intentional:

The Legacy Living Manifesto
📍 The C.O.P.E. Framework (Clear. Organize. Preserve. Empower.)
📅 The BLT Weekly Track: A rhythm of life and business content designed for impact

🌱 Introducing the Legacy Living Manifesto

 

Legacy isn’t something you write at the end of your life—it’s something you live, daily. The Legacy Living Manifesto is a declaration of values, vision, and action for women 50+ who want to live with purpose and finish well.

It’s not a list of goals or resolutions. It’s an incentive—an invitation to step forward with clarity, courage, and intention.

Legacy Living Manifesto
Legacy Living Manifesto - C.O.P.E.

Downloadable and Printable Legacy Living Manifesto

   The C.O.P.E. Framework: Your Legacy Starts          Now

 

At the heart of everything I offer is the C.O.P.E. Framework:

  • C – Clear Clutter: Let go of the excess. Keep what matters.
  • O – Organize: Put things in place that make life easier and more meaningful.
  • P – Preserve: Capture your stories, your wisdom, your voice.
  • E – Empower: Live with purpose. Pass on more than things—pass on strength.

Every tool, tip, product, and post at HER Life Hacks connects to one of these four pillars. Together, they support you in creating a life (and legacy) by design—not default.

 

COPE Pyramid 

🥪 What Is BLT? Your Weekly Legacy Content Plan

 

Legacy Living is easier when you know what to expect. So, I’ve created a rhythm to anchor your week:

  • B = Business Legacy Track (Tuesdays): Streamline your digital life, repurpose your content, organize your assets, and design a business that reflects your values.
  • L = Life Legacy Track (Wednesdays): Focus on home, family, estate prep, decluttering, organizing, memory-keeping, and all the meaningful layers of life that shape your story.
  • T = Together Track (Fridays): The intersection where life and business meet. Think productivity, time management, legacy tech tips, or personal stories with broader applications.

Each week, you’ll receive content that fits within one of these tracks—always grounded in the C.O.P.E. pillars, always aligned with the bigger picture: living well, finishing strong, and leaving nothing unsaid.

❤️ You’re Invited

 

This is more than a blog post. It’s your invitation to embrace a different pace and a deeper purpose.

Subscribe, follow along, and participate. Whether you’re ready to tackle your closets, your content, or your calling—I’ve got something coming your way that will help.

This is where Legacy Living begins. I’m so glad you’re here.

To your storied life,

Live well. Finish strong. Leave nothing unsaid.

Go to https://HERLifeHacks.com to subscribe to my newsletter. You are welcome here!

 

I’m Vicki Peel, Ed.D. — creator of HER Life Hacks,

certified organizational specialist,

and your guide to Legacy Living.

Here, we declutter what doesn’t matter, organize what does,

and preserve the stories only you can tell.

This is for women who want to live with intention, leave a legacy,

and never lose track of what really counts.

Subscribe to my newsletter for the latest C.O.P.E. content.

Creating a Meaningful Family Legacy – by Decluttering

Elizabeth’s experiences with legacy decluttering involved her parents, who began the process themselves, and her aunt, whose estate she managed.

In a recent interview, she shared her stories of legacy decluttering.

Have you thought about the legacy you want to leave behind in terms of the stuff you own?

Whether you’re downsizing due to life’s natural transitions or simply beginning the journey of letting go, the Legacy Decluttering Starter Kit is your trusted guide. Click on the title below to see what’s included and how it can help you.

Legacy Decluttering Starter Kit

Live Well. Finish Strong. Leave a Lasting Legacy.

 

If you’re interested in the Legacy Decluttering Starter Kit, contact me at vicki@herlifehacks.com for a coupon code if you would like a discount.

 

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Legacy Decluttering on a Budget

Legacy Decluttering on a Budget

Have you ever opened a closet only to be greeted by an avalanche of old belongings? Each item teetering on the edge of nostalgia, yet only adding to the clutter? If so, you’re not alone.

Our lives often accumulate so many things that it becomes hard to distinguish between what truly matters and what simply takes up space.

But, decluttering doesn’t have to cost a fortune or be an overwhelming task. Let’s dive into 3 simple—and budget-friendly—steps to embark on your legacy decluttering journey, so you can keep what matters and let go of the rest.

Step 1: Start with Stories, Not Stuff

Before you reach for that worn-out sweater, pause for a moment. What’s the story behind it? Ah, that old familiar tale! Maybe it was a gift from a beloved friend or a cherished memory from a special event. It’s easy to confuse the sentimental value of an object with the emotions tied to it. So, let’s flip the narrative.

Instead of keeping the sweater, take a moment to write down your story: When did you receive it? Why does it hold special meaning? Snap a photo of the sweater to immortalize it in the digital realm. By doing this, you preserve the memory without the physical clutter. Once you capture the sentiment, consider donating the sweater to someone who could use it. You’ve honored the past while creating space for new experiences. It’s a win-win!

Step 2: Give Meaningful Things a Second Life

Now that you’ve cleared out some of the sentimental clutter, let’s shine a light on those pieces that may have outlived their purpose. You know that vintage dresser taking up space in your garage? While it once may have inspired dreams of DIY projects, perhaps it’s time to let it go. Your clutter could be someone else’s treasure—and even a chance for you to make a little cash!

Consider donating to local charities, selling through community groups, or repurposing items into something fresh and functional. For instance, that dresser could become a trendy TV stand or a unique entryway piece with a little paint and some flair. By giving meaningful items a second life, you not only declutter your space but also contribute positively to someone else’s story. Who knows? Maybe that dresser will inspire another’s creativity!

Step 3: Ditch the Guilt, Keep the Gratitude

Letting go can be tough, especially when it comes to items that carry emotional weight, like Grandma’s china. But here’s the truth: Grandma’s heart won’t shatter if you decide to pass it on. Honor her legacy by choosing to keep items that genuinely serve you—not those that suffocate you with guilt.

When you do a declutter session, practice gratitude. Thank the items for their previous roles in your life, recognize how they served you, and then let them go. By doing so, you’re valuing the memories without being burdened by the possessions. You’re preserving the essence of your family history, and that is what truly matters.

What’s Your Next Move?

Decluttering is about more than just clearing space; it’s about making room for the things that genuinely matter in your life. By starting with stories, repurposing meaningful items, and letting go of guilt while staying grateful, you can declutter your legacy on a budget that honors both your past and your future.

Still feel those twinges of doubt and guilt when you let go of sentimental items? Take this simple quiz to answer this question:  Are You Carrying Too Much Emotional Clutter?

Ready to take it on?

What’s one sentimental item you’ve let go of that led to a sense of lightness? Share your journey with others and remember, decluttering doesn’t have to be an emotional battle.

It can be a liberating experience that brings joy, clarity, and gratitude as you craft a legacy filled with only what truly matters.

Now go ahead—take that step, breathe, and embrace the freedom that comes from letting go!

 

This post was previously published on Substack, March 12, 2025.

 

Clearing Emotional Clutter: 5 Steps to Lighten Your Mental Load

Clearing Emotional Clutter: 5 Steps to Lighten Your Mental Load

Clearing Emotional Clutter: 5 Steps to Lighten Your Mental Load

How Emotional Clutter Holds You Back

If your quiz results suggest that emotional clutter is a challenge for you, you’re not alone. We live in a time of constant input, where information, worries, and expectations pile up like a never-ending to-do list. Oh- you didn’t take the quiz? You can take it in the last blog post:

The Emotional Clutter Quiz: Are You Overloaded?

Here’s how emotional clutter impacts your life:

  • It drains your energy. Constant mental noise can be just as exhausting as physical work.
  • It kills productivity. When your mind is cluttered, focusing on important tasks becomes harder.
  • It affects your health. Stress-related clutter can lead to headaches, sleep problems, and anxiety.
  • It shows up in your space. Mental clutter often leads to a cluttered home or workspace, making stress even worse.

Now that you’ve identified your emotional clutter, here’s how to start clearing it:

1. Set Boundaries on Information Overload

  • Reduce exposure to anxiety-inducing news and social media.
  • Set a daily “news window” to check updates without doomscrolling.
  • Unfollow accounts that add to stress instead of value.

2. Create a “Mental Declutter” List

  • Write down everything weighing on your mind (worries, to-dos, unfinished tasks).
  • Identify what you can control vs. what you can’t.
  • Prioritize just one small action to gain momentum.

3. Process and Release What You’re Holding Onto

  • Try journaling to clear lingering thoughts and emotions.
  • Have an honest conversation with someone you trust.
  • Consider therapy or coaching if unresolved emotions are affecting your daily life.

4. Declutter Your Physical Space to Clear Your Mind

  • Tidy up one small area (your desk, nightstand, or purse) to create a sense of control.
  • Notice how a clearer space makes your mind feel lighter.
  • Use decluttering as a mindful reset instead of just another chore.

5. Reset Your Mind Daily

  • Start your mornings with five minutes of deep breathing, stretching, or journaling.
  • Set an evening wind-down routine to release mental clutter before bed.
  • Focus on small, consistent habits rather than perfection.

The good news? You can start decluttering your emotions just like you would your home—one small step at a time.

Lighten Your Load One Thought at a Time

Emotional clutter doesn’t disappear overnight, but taking small, intentional steps can free up mental space, reduce stress, and help you feel more in control—no matter what’s happening in the world

My Challenge:

Although I need to work on #1, #2, and #5, I realize that creates more emotional clutter, because it’s overwhelming. The last thing I need to do when I’m dealing with emotional issues is to take on too much.

However, #1 – Set boundaries on information overload is paramount for me. I confess that I have been emotionally overloaded since November. And the things that weigh heavily are things I cannot fix. It’s easy to know what to do. It’s not always easy to do it. It takes effort and planning and execution of those plans.

I have shifted my major social media platforms to Substack and LinkedIn, with more focus on Substack. But my major platform is YouTube, on which I have plans to post more. As a certified introvert, I don’t like Instagram. I’ve quit posting and scrolling on Facebook (to the extent possible). The only reason I’m still on Facebook is because I’m in some informative and supportive Facebook Groups, so I still need access to those. But I dislike Facebook – a lot. I deleted my X account and don’t follow anyone there. And I refuse to be on TikTok.

As for the news, I don’t watch it ever. I try to avoid reading any news when I come across it. I subscribe to and read Steady by Dan Rather. Period.

Your Challenge:

Pick just ONE decluttering step from this list and try it today. Then, notice how it makes you feel. I’d love to hear what you decide to do and how it goes for you.

 

 

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