The Power of One Microhabit to Change Your Life

The Power of One Microhabit to Change Your Life

Question: How many psychiatrists does it take to change a lightbulb?

Answer: One. But the lightbulb must want to change.

You’ve probably heard that riddle before. But even though it may make you smile it does get down to the heart of the matter of changing your life. To change your life, you must want it.

Our habits drive our lives. They make things easier because we don’t have to think about them. We just do them.

We brush our teeth twice a day. We have that morning cup of coffee to get us going. We take a shower daily.

Habits are powerful. We don’t have to make decisions about many of the things we do daily. They are simple habits.

Have you ever tried to change a habit and replace it with a new one that serves you better? I know I have. But most of the time, I failed. I tried to change too much all at once. Or I tried to change too many things.

When I tried to count calories by writing down everything I ate, I failed. When I tried to cut out all sugar in my diet, I failed. When I tried to exercise 30 minutes every day, I failed.

So, what did I do? I quit trying.

But what if I changed one tiny thing consistently? How might that affect my life?

Check out this short video about what I did.

 

And you know what? If you start doing one thing differently until it becomes a habit, it changes your perspective about things. I found that what I drank at meals or snack time wasn’t that important. I could focus more on enjoying the food I ate. I also found that I started feeling better by drinking water instead of Pepsi. And then, I started feeling better about myself because I was successful at doing something to improve my health.

It was a tiny microhabit. But it had powerful results.

So why is it better to make tiny, incremental change in your life instead of revamping your entire life at once? Because microhabits are simply doable

They are easier to start.

Often, the reason we have such a hard time making changes in our lives is that we just don’t know where to begin. The whole process seems so daunting and overwhelming. With microhabits, the difficulty is removed. When you’re only changing one very small thing, it barely feels like a change at all. In fact, it can be kind of fun trying out an incremental change just to see what kind of result you get.

They are easier to sustain.

While big changes tend to get real old really fast (like changing from a diet full of processed foods to something Keto or Paleo), micro-changes (like adding a vegetable to every meal) never feel hard at all. The simplicity of incremental change carries momentum all on its own.

They are fairly painless.

The big changes are sometimes so sweeping that they can actually hurt. Imagine throwing out every piece of unhealthy food in your kitchen. Then imagine standing there staring into the abyss of an empty refrigerator trying to figure out what to eat. You have nothing left that your actually liked to eat!

The nice thing about microhabits is that the change is in increments. So, if you’re working to change your diet, you may be only changing one food – like giving up soda – while still enjoying the things you love.

And ultimately, you may find it much easier to start adding other healthy microhabits in your life.

They use less energy.

Those great big changes are only going to wear you out. It’s like going for a full-fledged workout when you typically rarely leave the couch. Your body certainly isn’t ready for that kind of work, and the whole process (finding workout clothes and equipment, going to the gym, knowing what machine to use and how long, and for how many reps) can be pretty daunting.

Microhabits encourage you to take things slow, leaving you with more energy for the rest of your day. So instead of worrying about all that time at the gym, maybe you’re just deciding to take the stairs at work or to park further away from the building, so you get that extra walking in. That bypasses all that energy you’d spend going to and from the gym, and still gives you some exercise you wouldn’t normally get.

They keep you motivated.

Great big goals can feel a million miles away and easily leave you discouraged.

Microhabits set smaller goals that are achieved in tiny increments. This means you get to your destination a lot faster, leaving you with a feeling of accomplishment. That feeling helps keep you motivated as you continue to work towards change. Creating microhabits is a self-sustaining cycle of change and momentum.

While these might not seem like big achievements, the feeling of having done something special is still perfectly valid and will make you feel good about yourself, and what you’re doing.

Is there something you would like to change in your life? Can you simplify it into a microhabit?

Here is a simple habit tracker I designed that you could download for free! My One Thing Daily Habit Tracker is an undated printable that you could print out to complete or use in digital format and save in a file. You have a choice of three colors – green, pink, or white, and can use it over and over because it is undated.

Go to my website, Simple Systems for Life, to get your free copy!

And start your tiny, incremental change toward huge rewards in your life today!

 

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3 Ways to Stay Hopeful During Uncertain Times

3 Ways to Stay Hopeful During Uncertain Times

 

To say that the world has been going through uncertain times is an understatement. People everywhere are suffering in some way. You may be one of them.

Life isn’t always the way we want it to be. All we have to do is to glance at the headlines to see that we live in very uncertain times. It’s hard to get through a week without hearing of another mass shooting. There’s always some natural disaster somewhere.

It makes it hard to remain hopeful in times like these. People seem to be more cruel than kind. And even more than your own fears, you may fear what kind of world your children and grandchildren are growing up in.

It’s easy to get caught up in a negative spiral of self-doubt and anxiety. How do you stay hopeful and positive when around you all you see are negative messages and fear? Is it even possible?

It is possible. But it’s not easy. Here are three ways that can help you stay hopeful in these uncertain times. These are certainly not the only ways to stay hopeful, but they will help you start down a more hopeful road.

Be here now.

Focus on the present. If you do, you will find it easier to take a step back and act as an observer. I’m sure you’ve heard it said or even said it yourself that all we have is the present. We cannot change anything in the past. If you have regrets or failures that continue to haunt you, you’ll never find the hope to move forward. By practicing mindfulness that helps you focus on the present, you’ll see you can enjoy the simple things in life, no matter how bad things may seem.

Look for the simple things in your life for which you’re grateful. Write them down.

Look for ways to exhibit compassion and empathy

In 2019, Caroline Flack posted on Instagram “In a world where you can be anything, be kind”.  Two months later she committed suicide.

Spreading hope needs to start somewhere. Begin with the one person you can control, yourself. By looking for opportunities to pay it forward through random acts of kindness, you then become the impetus for others to do the same. Your compassionate heart and ability to walk in another’s shoes will be the guide to those around you.

You may never know how much a simple act of kindness means to someone. And even if it doesn’t? You’ll have at least changed one heart – your own.

Do something 

The person without hope becomes stagnant, preferring to hide from the world. If you find that’s the case with yourself, then it’s time to force yourself into action, even if you don’t feel like it.

Get out of the house. Call a friend and suggest an outing or go by yourself. Find a green space somewhere because these places have been found to create calm and contentment in those who spend even a few minutes there.

The goal is to find a positive action and embrace it, whatever that might be. Pick up litter, hug a child, do something that makes you feel good inside, and you will find hope blossoming.

It’s so easy to get caught up in the negativity of the world around you. Only by actively seeking hope will you find it. By practicing these three steps regularly, you’ll find yourself able to look forward to each day, no matter what’s going on around you.

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Do You Have an Abundance Mindset?

Do You Have an Abundance Mindset?

Shifting to a mindset of abundance has probably been one of the hardest things for me to grasp and develop on my lifelong journey of self-improvement. When I first started reading about it, I knew I wanted it – an abundance mindset.

I grew up thinking about abundance in a very different way. Of course, as a child I didn’t think or talk about the term abundance, but I somehow knew I didn’t have it. It is something I have had to work at and be cognizant of. But it is worth it. ‘

As you read this post, stop and reflect about how you think and feel about what you read. It may be much different from typical thoughts about abundance

An abundance mentality springs from internal security, not from external rankings, comparisons, opinions, possessions, or associations.”- Stephen Covey

When you live from a place of abundance, you feel gratitude for what you already have, are aware and constantly pursuing new opportunities in every area of your life and give to others freely.

Concept of Abundance

The entire universe is conspiring to give you everything you want.” – Abraham Hicks

This mindset is the core of any area of your life. It focuses your attention on what you already have and all the possibilities that are available to everyone in the world. The problem, according to Covey is that most people are trapped with the scarcity mentality. They act as though they have to grab things in life before others get them, as if there is not enough abundance to go around.

The concept of abundance, or the theory behind abundance mindset then, is one of believing there is always enough for you and everyone else, that by taking risks and growing in all ways, you win and succeed in life.

Abundance: More than Wealth

Abundance is more than wealth, although that is a part of it. It is many things and can mean different things to each person. It is the internal belief that, regardless of your circumstances, situation, or skills, you are always provided for in every area of your life.

Real abundance is the physical manifestation of your true nature and how we are showing up in our world. It shows ups as:

❃  Love of family

❃  Support from friends

❃  An unexpected gift

❃  New friends

❃  A helping hand from a stranger

❃  Renewed energy and better health

❃  New opportunities to move you closer to your vision

❃  And sometimes cash

Abundance includes financial wealth, but it also includes having a rich, healthy, and fulfilling life, while living each day with purpose and passion.

🔷 Financial or Material

This can mean anything from having peace of mind that your bills are always paid to having actual financial wealth with unlimited funds. It can mean you are abundant in possessions such as homes, autos, jewelry, furniture, or other material things.

🔷  Personal Development

Being abundant in your personal development can be an abundance of confidence in your abilities, skills, and opportunities. It can be an abundance in learning and growing to be your best self. It means being fulfilled in personal enrichment activities you enjoy.

🔷  Spirituality

An abundance of spirituality means feeling a connection to your higher self often through your religious or spiritual practice. It means standing up for what you believe in and being comfortable with that.

🔷  Relationships

The variety of relationships you have that contributes to your happiness includes friends, coworkers, and of course family and loved ones. Abundant relationships enrich every area of your life.

🔷  Health

Having a health abundance starts with treating your body with love and respect by eating healthy foods, regular exercise, and physical exams. It means being at your healthiest level, free from disease and unhealthy habits.

🔷  Purpose

Although our career is often what we consider our purpose in life, it is more powerful to a think of it as a sense of belonging at whatever you do, whether great or small. It may manifest itself with a feeling of contentment with what you do in life.

🔷  Natural abundance

           Abundance can be found all around you. It can be found in nature and your awareness of it.

Abundance is being able to recognize the riches of everything in your life, loving yourself, taking care of your health and doing what you are passionate about. Abundance is about feeling loved and loving others, about feeling peaceful and free.

Developing an Abundance Mindset

Abundance is not something we acquire. It is something we tune into.” ~ Wayne Dyer

Developing an abundant mindset can be done with consistency and believing it will happen. Focus on your thoughts, actions, fears and how you react to events. Then make changes when you find yourself reacting from a place of scarcity.

The Next Step

Your thoughts, feelings and attitudes affect your ability to create the life you desire. This is your mindset. It can be one of abundance or come from a place of scarcity.

Bad things do happen in life. While you can’t control what happens in every situation, you can control how you react. You can shift your thinking and identify the positives that result from the event. At these times, it’s important that you actively to choose to focus on the positive aspects. When you learn to control and shift your mindset to abundance, you begin to recognize and experience more abundance and possibility.

In the words of Peter Diamandis, “Creating abundance is not about creating a life of luxury for everybody on this planet; it’s about creating a life of possibility.

Is your mindset helping or hindering your creation of abundance in your life?

My ecourse, “Designing Your New Normal Mindset”, is a great place to start to examine your mindset and develop one of abundance. This course provides the guidance to help you enter the next phase of your life with awareness and confidence and ultimately, abundance.  Consider how developing a new mindset can propel you to abundance by design! Check it out HERE!

Here’s to the peace and joy of your new abundance mindset!

5 Sources of Stress and 5 Things to Do About It

5 Sources of Stress and 5 Things to Do About It

Stress is an evil demon. No one is immune to its effects and everyone will suffer different symptoms resulting from being stressed out. One absolute fact: Stress will affect your mood, your job performance, your relationships, and your health if you don’t create a proactive plan for dealing with this devil.

I can’t imagine anyone not affected by stress in the last year. Just experiencing such drastic change over which you have no power is stress enough. But that was just the starting point for so many people who lost jobs and even worse, lost family members. I know I have worried over my children and grandchildren being exposed to the dangers all around.

But there are things we can do to manage stress, and the results mean you are managing your life, getting back on track and dealing constructively with issues facing you.

Let’s explore some of the most common stress symptoms and how to avoid the triggers that welcome stress into your life. Do any of these sound like you?

1. Inability to Relax

After a long day of work, what does your evening look like? Are you still in work-mode or can you sit down and relax while watching your favorite guilty pleasure on television? Constantly working doesn’t give your brain a chance to shut down and renew itself

2. Changes in Appetite

Some people overeat when stressed while others forget to eat because they don’t feel hungry during stressful events. Look at your own eating habits. Have you noticed a weight increase or loss? Are your clothes fitting differently? Do you notice any other physical symptoms that are affecting your productivity?

3. Feelings of Overwhelm

If you have too much scheduled on your calendar or your to-do list, you may experience an overwhelming feeling which leads to paralysis because you don’t know where to start. Overwhelming feelings of helplessness lead to stress, especially if you don’t have a strong support system of friends or family who can help you.

4. Feelings of Low Self-Worth

Stress often plays mind tricks on us, making us feel low, worthless, and incapable of great things. We may have the best idea ever but if one step goes wrong, the resulting stress makes us think we’re not cut out for this work, project, business, etc.

5. Inability to Focus

When your mind is stressed about other issues, focusing on the task at hand becomes difficult if not impossible. If you find your productivity is waning – either at work or at home – stress is weighing on your mind and you need to shift it elsewhere.

 

Try These Action Steps to Combat Stress

1. Avoid or Reduce Caffeine and Nicotine

Caffeine is a stimulant and when too much is ingested, can lead to heart palpitations and anxiety. Nicotine offers a quick fix to relax but that relaxing feeling soon evaporates, and you’re left with the anxiety and stress you were trying to eliminate in the first place.

I try to avoid caffeine, but if I can’t, I try to avoid it after 3:00 pm. Otherwise, I don’t sleep as well. Sometimes, it is just too hard. After all, chocolate is good for you, isn’t it? (Actually, dark chocolate in small amounts has been shown to have health benefits.)

2. Move Your Body Every Day

Daily movement helps keep your muscles toned, your ligaments flexible, your joints pain-free, and your mind more alert. Go for a walk, take an exercise class at the gym, or use some YouTube fitness videos to inspire you to move.

Use a simple timer or phone app to remind you to move at regular intervals. You don’t have to get in a 30-minute exercise routine. Just 5 minutes or stretching or 10 minutes of walking outside repeated throughout the day can work wonders.

3. Keep a Stress Diary

Similar to a daily journal, a stress diary can help you identify what triggers your stress. Whether it’s a work situation, toxic person in your daily life, or a situation at home, you’ll soon see a pattern if you jot down periodically throughout the day how you’re feeling emotionally and physically.

4. Take Control of Problems that Trigger Stress

Once you notice a trend of what stresses you out, do your best to take control of that trigger. Simple changes in routine and developing tiny habits to combat stress can make a huge difference. It doesn’t have to be a big change to impact your life.

5. Learn to Say No

It doesn’t make you a bad person to set some limits on how much time you spend doing what others want you to do. Set some boundaries for scheduling your time in ways that work for you.

Stress is present in everyone’s life but that doesn’t mean you have to be a slave to it. Take care of yourself by recognizing what triggers the stress in your life and by taking proactive measure to avoid stressful situations at all costs. Start living your best life stress-free!

If you are interested in more ways to combat stress, my friend Shirley Noah is an expert in dealing with stress. She wrote “Say No To Stress : A Practical Approach to Stress Management: The Essential Guide to Stop the Devastating Effects of Stress on Your Body”. You can get the Kindle version free on Amazon if you have Kindle Unlimited. But even if you don’t, the Kindle version is only $2.99! A small price to pay for how to “Say No to Stress”!

Another resource from Shirley is her Worry Journal Toolkit. Study proves these simple, natural remedies for anxiety will help you to dig deep and figure out how to let go of your worries and be mindful of your emotions. You can pick it HERE for only $12.99!

Shirley also writes about stress shares resources for dealing with stress on her website – https://ingoodhealthcoach.com/. You’ll find a lot of great tips there!

Take this FREE Self-Assessment: Is Stress Overtaking Your Life? Save the PDF and duplicate it to keep the original. You can complete it online and save it with a date. After implementing strategies to tackle your stress, open a new PDF and retake the assessment to see how far you’ve come!

I’m educator and blogger Vicki Peel, Ed.D. I support family members trying to live good-enough, intentional, and simpler lives by sharing life hacks and simple systems in the areas of Home Style, Lifestyle, and Food. Start by claiming your FREE report, Self-Care Hacks at https://HERLifeHacks.com

My shop in https://SimpleSystemsForLife.com continues to grow with products that support a simpler lifestyle and save you time, energy, and/or money. You can download the FREE “My One Thing Habit Tracker” on this site to help you develop and sustain tiny habits that will change your life for the better. Click HERE.

 

 

Your 10-Minute Morning Mindset

Your 10-Minute Morning Mindset

In only ten minutes, you can create a morning routine that will put you in the right mindset to conquer your day. Jumpstart your day with these simple routines to prepare your mind.

Minute 1 – Mind Set

As your feet hit the floor every morning, say to yourself “It’s gonna be a great day!” I have this phrase on my bedside table to remind me that if you start your day in a positive mindset, it propels you through the day in a positive manner.

Minute 1 – Drink the Water

Start keeping a large glass of water beside your bed. Before you even get out of bed, drink the water. Your body is dehydrated after a long night of repairing itself, and you need to replenish that. Drinking water will also help reduce the morning fog and grog that follows so many into their workday despite multiple cups of coffee.

Minutes 2-3 – Do the Breathing

Now that your body is rehydrating take a few minutes to do simple breathing exercises. This is as easy as timing your breaths to take six to ten deep breaths through one minute. Timing your breaths will force you to focus on your breathing and your body. Helping you to wake up and calm yourself for your day.

Minutes 3-6 – Stretch the Body

Gentle stretching will get your blood flowing and your body energized. This will also help to ease you into the process of getting ready and the day ahead. Stretching has long-term health benefits as well including better circulation and flexibility overall.

Minutes 6-9 – Give Thanks

Take a few moments to reflect on what you are thankful for. You don’t have to write these down or keep a record on your phone. Just take a few moments to single in on aspects of your life you are thankful for and why. This will put a positive spin on your day and keep you present through the difficult moments.

Minute 10 – Visualize the Success

Visualizing the successes you wish to have through the day will cement them in your mind and boost your confidence level. They don’t have to be big successes. Just see yourself completing daily tasks with ease to secure the outcome you desire.

You may not have hours to devote to morning routines, but you can spare ten minutes of your morning to starting off on the right foot (or mindset). Your personal morning mindset may take even less than ten minutes, but the benefits can last all day. Consistently devoting your time to these few minutes can change your life – for the better.

Need more help with setting your mind on your personal success journey.

Try my new course, Designing Your New Normal Mindset. It’s a great way to set your life course and it’s easier than you think. Designing your mindset is the prerequisite for designing your life. Check it out HERE. Then let me know how you benefitted.

Here’s to the peace and joy of your new morning mindset!